Sorry you find yourself here Welcome to the land Of MLC
the Mlcers will get a bit crazy during D time as he sees he is losing a lot Most are also terrible parents and they will try to BLAME us for stuff and justify their choices because we did or did not do... MLC is usually said to be caused by unresolved childhood trauma so maybe QLC is the same Im not sure but it makes sense if this is true then you will have little control over this situation and your H will have to figure out his own healing process or NOT..ands usually not
If you can shift your energy to healing yourself and raising your child..this is where the solution is get all the support emotionally from others your family, friends, support groups, 12 step rooms, therapists, church or temple- get grounded yoga, rest eat well, meditate, breathe...
this is usually a long process-and you may see the MLCer go further down watch for signs of drug addiction make sure your child is safe with him
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
