Just a few posts ago, I was ready to call it quits ...Until I saw this post....I'm not going to quit...it will be up to her to file for D if she chooses to because I won't.....
Glad you saw those posts. Which posts haven't you saw that might speak volumes to you??? This is a rhetorical question.
This is why it is extremely important to act on logic and not emotions. That is why it is important to take as much time as needed to make important decisions. But if you wait too long, you might miss a critical action that needed to be taken immediately.
You have two things going for you. One, you have a whole team of people here to support you. Two, you can do the work to understand the process better than W and be well prepared to response to her behavior with methods that have higher probability of working than if you we not here.
I wish you well during this most difficult time of your life. Just remember that you will come out the other end of this process as a whole new, better you.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
