... Do you think it is a bad idea to split from our rental home? I was planning on not renewing our lease and moving on...will this drive my W deeper into the arms of the OW? Or am i still worrying too much about her and not myself- which is what DB'ing is all about?
Being that this is a different situation than most here, should I approach it differently? Should I continue to stay in our home with her and DB? ...
kbuenob -
My WW moved out and I strongly suspect that she moved in with OM. It is easier to detach and not be in emotional chaos everyday. However, you will have to battle the demons of your own thought of WW being with AP. You won't see them that often, so you will feel frustrated as there is no perceived progress.
You are still early in your sitch. My suggestion would be that you try and DB while she's living with you, and decide over the next month whether to separate. It's not like you can take any real action before Jan/Feb anyways.
Just my 2 cents...
Disclaimer: I'm neck deep in my own sh*t right now, but only giving you my experience and what to expect. Definitely put more weight into what the other vets like Sandi, LH, AnotherStander, Ready2Change are suggesting if you need to be more firm with your WW.
