Thank you KristinG for your support and your perspective.
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You have been doing a great job of venting here and not making rash decisions. Keep that level head. You WW will most certainly push your buttons and her subconscious goal will be to get you to "give her a reason" to leave or move closer to AP.
ie: "well you kicked me out of our house" or "you pushed me away and she was there for me"
Do you think it is a bad idea to split from our rental home? I was planning on not renewing our lease and moving on...will this drive my W deeper into the arms of the OW? Or am i still worrying too much about her and not myself- which is what DB'ing is all about?
Being that this is a different situation than most here, should I approach it differently? Should I continue to stay in our home with her and DB?