I will be speaking to a lawyer this week, tried setting some appointments today but everyone is out of office due to Veterans Day. I'll try again tomorrow.
I'll also look into the 50/50 parenting plan with the L
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I would be telling her to find a place to live and I am doing the same because I'm not renewing the lease given the present circumstances. No boundary, I would just say that's it, we're splitting. THEN I would terminate Netflix and such, and quit paying her medical bills.
I guess this is what I was looking for. I'm ready to let go. I've been in pain for too long and it hurts when I see her everyday. I'll be able to focus on myself and son. She can live her life with the OW. I need to start living mine again.
Depending on what the L says, I'm thinking that i'll give my landlord 30 days notice January 1st, 2020 and be out of the rental by Feb.
Out of respect for my in-laws, I'd like to give them notice as well. Is that appropriate? I'm pretty close with her dad, and I asked to have his daughter's hand in marriage. Seems like I owe it to him to at least talk to him about the situation.
