1.when H is feeling closer to me as a friend, he will call me to have small talk convo. (I have not always been easy to talk to because of some lies that he told in the past. I would always accuse him of lying)
I can trust him with some personal things about me and talk to him about everyday things to hopefully make him want to share with me. It really kills me that the everyday things that are going on his life, I am no longer a part of.
As H continues to notice change, he will stop saying too little too late and just compliment me on the changes.
I will continue to makes changes in myself for myself as H sees that the changes are for me and not for him, he will stop saying too little too late. When he fist left he accused me of being consumed with the M and him.
