I would be telling her to find a place to live and I am doing the same because I'm not renewing the lease given the present circumstances. No boundary, I would just say that's it, we're splitting. THEN I would terminate Netflix and such, and quit paying her medical bills.
This is what I would do as well. Until she moves out, I would be enjoying my master bedroom while she is in the other room.
It is extremely important to do things in a specific order.
I am supporting you because you have a child. He is the most important thing.
Now that you have had a few days to process, I would put these at the top of your list of things to do:
Speaking with a lawyer
Written Parenting plan. I did not move out of the marital home until I had a 50/50 parenting plan. This was against the advise of my lawyer. I don't know how many other sitch you have read here, but you don't want to one of the dads that leave and the mother claims abandonment and they are fighting to get time with their kids.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
