Hey Dan sorry you’re feeling down mate. It’s a roller coaster isn’t it.

Absolutely don’t reach out to her unless absolutely warranted or she initiates. Keep dB stay the course m

I think if you’d have stayed and talked would she have wanted to talk? Probably not.

Good on you for deciding to go with consent orders

Keep up the gym work and smashing those castanets!


Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24