11.50pm Her: is she sleeping now? Me : in and out of sleep, keeps waking to be sick, but getting longer stretches of sleep.
I'd be cautious about setting a pattern that you respond to your ex at all hours of the night.
Originally Posted by JDevast
5.01 Her: I've just woken up worried What time can I come over. I was awake at 5 but waited til 7 to reply. Me: whenever you want is ok, both are awake now.
Good job waiting until 7am to reply!
I'd be cautious about setting a pattern where she's in charge and/or the one to provide comfort when the kids are sick. I recall when son was sick, you said she texted: "Son is sick; no open evening." In contrast you're sending updates every 2hrs, and letting her come to your house and share custody time. Are you unsure how to treat or comfort your D? The video call was different because that request was initiated by your D. I lost additional respect for my ex-wife back when she'd call me to help anytime the kids were sick.
