Kb, you are feeling into the "I can't detach while we live together" trap. We've seen dozens of sitches here. Some with the couple cohabitating. Some with the couple physically separated. Many of those LBSs cohabitating say "I can't detach while in the same house". Ironically, a lot of the LBSs that are physically separated complain that they can't show their WAS their changes while separated.
So kb becareful what you wish for.
Good to hear form you Steve. But does my W care about my changes? She is having an A with another chick. In my mind, she doesn't give 2 sh*ts about my changes while she's busy "loving" this other woman.
So, should my plan be simply to "work on myself" while she's knee deep in this A?
