Originally Posted by kbuenob
HOW DO I STOP THE AFFAIR???
You can't. You take yourself out of the equation.

Originally Posted by kbuenob
I want to talk to her about moving out this house.
How long until lease is up? You DB in the same house. She doesn't even want to move out of MBR. Why? (think hard about this one)


Things that work are counter intuitive.


Divorce is the ultimate boundary. You assume you are already dead (ie divorced). You DB in parallel to preparing for divorce. Parenting plans etc....

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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