Nitaf. You have a choice to make here. You can go to a lawyer, get a separation agreement which will detail out when your H does (and, for the record, does NOT) see your son. This is a choice that I made and haven’t regretted since. Your son needs a solid schedule. How confusing for him to not know where he is spending the night! Your H needs to know that you are not the doormat here. You’re getting trampled on by this guy!
At bare minimum you need to stop talking. He’s dancing around your boundaries, ignoring some and over emphasizing others. As I read that I was getting angry at the man, because truthfully he’s almost mocking you! And you are giving him exactly what he needs to keep going. By showing that you notice what he does, he has reason to continue.
"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere."
--Agnes Repplier, writer and historian
