My original sitch is all spelled out in the Infidelity forum. It is buried since I have not posted since maybe February. I just became, instead, a "squatter" on Meredith's thread, until Betsey so graciously gave me a room in the "Friends" apartment. It would probably be easier if you just looked it up there, instead of me going through it all again. Be warned, though, that it was done before I learned how to break up my paragraphs...so it is long and tedious!
My H moved out this past Halloween weekend. He stayed gone a lot of Novemeber, then asked to come back. He slept on the couch for the longest time though.
We are working through things, slowly. Had I not learned patience I would have messed this up beyond repair months ago.
I sense there is some connection you feel to something I've said. Feel free...ask any questions you have. I would like to help, just not sure yet in what capacity I can do so.
As for your above post to Meredith- I'm wondering if you should get a seperation agreement in place that states that your H needs to take your S on the weekends or every other plus some days during the week. He should not be able to use the excuse of his parents bossing him around. Or, if you don't want to create an argument, is there a possibility that he could stay at your house on his weekends? Do you have somewhere you can go? I know it is disruptive to you, but would be a great thing for your son. I've known people who approached things this way, and it seemed to work.
