Thanks, Slowly. I will lcheck out the goal setting threads.
Slowly, yesterday my H invited family over to our home to put the leftovers from the BBQ that we had for the B-Ball team on the grill. I was really surprised. My BIl said it is soooo weird that he says that he does not want to be home but he has his shoes off and is sleep on the couch. He is out on the grill like he is at home. My BIL is like he is strange dude!
I have to say that I have soooo much support from all of my in-laws. They really love me and support my fight for my M. My MIL use to get on him all the time but I asked her to stop because it will make it harder for him to come home if she kleeps telling him how wrong he is to walk out on his family.
I sometimes get discouraged because I wonder when the EA possible PA will fizzle out, if it ever does. He seems so in a fantasy world right now. HOw long does it take before he realizes ok, this is not what it seems.