I've done some pros and cons about exposure to FIL. Ultimately, I think it will cause harm- more heartbreak, confusion, resentment etc to her family, all of whom I love. I don't want to hurt them. I also think the W will resent me even more, pushing me even further. Now if they confront me about anything, I would be forced to show them the truth. However, I will not be the one to bring it up.
Thank you for the breakdown of each of the approaches. I feel like a mix between setting them free (RobX) and Become Attractive (Coach) is the way to go for me.
My issue with this though, is that the A is still going on. Many times over, I hear that theres virtually no way to R if the A is still happening. What do I do about this? How do i protect my family while doing RobX and Coach approaches? How do I fight the A if i'm just letting go? This is what i'm confused about
