The only thing that I keep thinking about is exposing to my W family. But that's a gamble. I love them and dont want them to think I am making up lies. But Again, i have proof. I need suggestions here.
Exposure definitely is a gamble. That is why MWD recommends not doing. Puppy reflected back and said it would have been better if he wouldn't have exposed to HIS family. The hardest part about it, you only have a very short window now to make a decision. If you are going to tell FIL, I would strongly suggest you find the example letters that keeps it short, and focuses on protecting the family. Being proactive is much better than being reactive. I believe AllenA went extremly to far in some of his exposure/protection.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
