Sounds like you have exposed to your family. What about hers? Have you researched all the pros and con's of this? Do you understand MWD stance on exposure?
Good to hear from you R2C. Yes, I have told my some of my family. They have been my support system through all of this (besides you all). They love both me and my W and do not have any ill feelings towards her, no matter the outcome. I have not exposed to my W family. As much as I want to let them know the truth, I'm unsure of how they will receive it. I love them as well and I do not want to think that I am making up lies. However, i do have proof and screenshots of text messages between my W and OW. I have a feeling that my W is feeding them lies about me, based on other text messages that I have seen. My W recently hacked into my phone (I should have used a better password) and deleted those screenshots. I have backups though- so i still have them via email.
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Women do not respect men that they can "push around".
I feel like by me not doing anything, I am being pushed around. Is remaining calm, controlling my emotions in the face of her anger being strong? Do I have to do anything more than that to display my strength?
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What actions can you take to gain respect? Your words are not going to fix this.
I understand this, that is why I need help figuring out my next actions. I feel like when I moved her stuff into the guest room, only for her to turn around and move her stuff back to the MBR, it negated any power that i may have displayed. I resolved to stay calm and use few words in my interactions with her moving forward.
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What actions can you take to attack the affair?
I have no idea. i am clueless. The only thing that I keep thinking about is exposing to my W family. But that's a gamble. I love them and dont want them to think I am making up lies. But Again, i have proof. I need suggestions here.
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What boundaries can you set and enforce to protect yourself, you son, and your marriage?
