I JUST FOUND OUT THAT MY WIFE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH ANOTHER WOMAN.
I am disgusted, hurt, angry, depressed. She has crossed a major boundary but I'm doing nothing about it. Moving her stuff out to the other room? that didn't do anything. She's knee deep in her A and I'm over here just keeping quiet. She just moved her stuff back in, took her 30 mins.
WHAT IN THE WORLD AM I DOING?
I feel like im just sitting here saying,"Yeah, no problem, W. Go ahead and sleep with your lover. I won't do anything about it so go ahead..." I feel like a CHUMP right now.
I was thinking about moving out, but everyone here is telling me to stay in the house. WHY?
As you can tell i'm growing impatient.
What do i do? Just keep my mouth shut and GAL? Then eventually, after a couple years i'm going to feel so good about myself that the W see that and break it off with the OW and come back to me? Or not? Is that the whole idea of DB? We talk a lot about actions. What actions besides moving stuff from room to room? Guys im pissed right now. I hope i'm not offending anyone as I appreciate all of your guidance. It's just that I am really frustrated and don't know what to do. Every time I see her it hurts. I have text messages of her and her lover saying that they love each other so much and that they cant wait to hold each other. THAT HURTS ME. Though even through all of this, the evidence I have, the hurt that I constantly feel, I STILL LOVE HER. AND WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO FEEL HER LOVE AGAIN
WHY??
I WISH I DIDNT CARE SO MUCH FOR HER. SHE IS THE MOTHER OF MY SON AND WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER ALMOST 20 YEARS.
We shared so many happy times together and she dismisses them all like none of that happened.
WHAT HAPPENED TO MY WIFE?? WHERE DID SHE GO?
Her body is here but her heart and mind have been have been replaced with someone elses.
I'm tired of feeling strong one day and then crying my eyes out the next (like right now).
SOMETHING NEEDS TO CHANGE. I AM EXTREMELY HEARTBROKEN
