Welcome back Gwen! It's nice to read an update and your accomplishments. I agree with the ladies...MLC divorce is certainly one for the record books because nothing is normal when dealing with someone in crisis.
Please do not be a stranger! Come back and visit again very soon.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.