hmmmmm. Aren't 1 and 2 the same thing?

From your perspective, he's cheating. From his perspective, he's not. As far as he's concerned, it's no more cheating than if you were dating and broke up. There's just a little bothersome paperwork in this case.

And nobody else's opinion really matters.

My question for you is: if things do work out and you reconcile, will you ever be able to forgive him for cheating in your eyes?


M:23 T:26
Me:53, Wife: 60
S:18
D:16
filed 7/16
W moved out 4/28/17