Well, what do you want at this point in your life? Are you still searching for the perfect person to raise a family with?
DnJ said it all very well. The bar for me is very different at this stage in my life. I’m want someone whom I am compatible with, self supporting, generous with his heart, that takes interest in my family and the life I built for myself but not someone to raise my daughter with. She’s 12, she’s got parents..... but it is important that the person I date gels well with my daughter, my parenting style, etc. but im not looking for that person to raise her, because she’s being raised just fine.
I look at what’s important to me at this stage in my life. Is that person compatible with the life you have now? Are you compatible with the life they have now?
The great thing again is you don’t have to make any decisions because you don’t have a biological clock ticking ! But do ask yourself if you are satisfied and happy where things are right now.