I understand now R2C. I want to keep my family intact. Yes I read it and Wolf was disappointed in himself for not following the advice here. Im not making that mistake. I understand the concept of boundaries better from reading Sandi's reflections about the LBS and WW. I need gain her respect back. She cheated, and since I can't kick her out of the house, I can claim my bedroom as mine and kick her out of the MBR. She doesn't deserve to sleep with me in MY bed.
Are there any scripts that I can say to reinforce this action?
