Just updating . Today was a great though exhausting GAL day . Spent my entire day just loving on the kids . Lunch , lego place and just plain simple fun playing ! Just me and kids . I did laugh at H . He messaged me asking what I was doing and I wrote “out and about “. Oooops still got a few of those mysterious GAL techniques stuck in me . He immediately called and said I know you are out with them but what are you doing . I did tell him what we were up to , he was pleasant and calm .
Yesterday was interesting to say the least . H took me to the mountains here for a romantic dinner he planned . During the dinner I got this sense an R talk was coming . Well it came . He painted a very bad rewrite of history to his family and friends . He starting to have to explain some of it .Almost to the point I got the sense that people are starting to realize he may have been the one who was wrong or needs help . I was painted as an awful lazy mother . A verbally abusive wife who would not let him do anything . A wife who sat down and did absolutely nothing for her family but complain . So I think people now wonder why he’s so happy to be home . I have yet to speak to anyone in his family or his friends . To be truthful I don’t want to . I do not have much to say to anyone who supported his type of behavior . Who agreed with a man walking out on his wife and children . Is this wrong ???
He did ask about myself and what was said . He has no one to face . I opened up and said maybe something I should not have . I said . I choose to tell people that Im standing my ground for our marriage . To be the solid person between the two of us . To be the person I agreed to be when I married him - the for better or worse . I am not the weak person he thought of me . He at this point is just baling his eyes out . He tells me thank you this could have turned out really badly . I was thinking if I left you I would one day find the perfect person when in all reality that’s you .
Reality has really hit him of the path he took . The hurt he caused and how this really could have gone had I for 1. Not found this site and immediately started DB at that point 2. He had not been slowed down by his auto immune disease 3. Had I thrown in the towel
