As is very often said, this is a marathon not a sprint! You are clearly running a sprint. By all means things may not change with your wife. But you coming down thinking about this and reacting rationally will change you, and you are the only one that you are in charge of. There is nothing that you will do today that you can’t do next week after calming down and thinking about it. And I will bet you serious cash you will be thinking differently on Monday then you are now. Don’t put yourself in the position of regretting your actions. Start running the marathon. Don’t burn yourself out in the first lap.
Understood DonH. Thank you.
Maybe wanting to move out ASAP is just me saying,"Look W, I won and am getting the F away from you so you will feel bad about yourself." Maybe it is about "winning" and not necessarily the best thing for my son or my sitch (right now).
