As is very often said, this is a marathon not a sprint! You are clearly running a sprint. By all means things may not change with your wife. But you coming down thinking about this and reacting rationally will change you, and you are the only one that you are in charge of. There is nothing that you will do today that you can’t do next week after calming down and thinking about it. And I will bet you serious cash you will be thinking differently on Monday then you are now. Don’t put yourself in the position of regretting your actions. Start running the marathon. Don’t burn yourself out in the first lap.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D