Im definitely reacting with emotion. I can see that now.
Moving out = making me feel better, but not necessarily good for my son. I understand.
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Stop engaging. Stop all R talks. Stop talking to her. Nothing good will come from it. You need to slow down here. You are upset and want to act and it could really harm things. There is nothing you have to do or say today that can’t wait.
Thank you DonH. Though, what exactly am I waiting for? That I'm unclear on. Seems like it will be the same old stuff, different day unless I do something different. She didn't honor my boundary and immediately put all of her stuff back in the MBR after I put it in the guestroom. We're still sleeping the same bed. There were no consequences for her.
If felt good moving her stuff, but that lasted just a couple hours.
What is my next power move? What are some other action items for me to take to show her that she is being disrespectful and I will not tolerate it? Right now she is full blown in her A with another woman, and she also has the comforts and security of this home. Isnt she cake eating? I feel like i'm enabling her to do whatever she wants. I KNOW that I don't want to be around her. She brings me down whenever I see her. What am i waiting for?
