Jr45 with all respect please be careful about giving advice that you really are only guessing on. You are soooooo new into this. Have you even been able to read the books yet? Just be careful.
Leaving the house is most always suggested against. Unless you believe your safety is at risk it is best to stay in the house. You really need to slow down. I can just sense you reacting on emotion and it will be to your detriment. Why are you still discussing this with her? You are not going to change her mind. Stop engaging. Stop all R talks. Stop talking to her. Nothing good will come from it. You need to slow down here. You are upset and want to act and it could really harm things. There is nothing you have to do or say today that can’t wait.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D