Steve, R2C, AS, IH, Augusto

Thank you for the advice as always

I have made the decision to not stay in the same house as my W. She’s toxic right now. I do not see any way that we can remain amicable especially since she is deep in her A. I’m losing more respect for her as the day goes by. She’s gaslighting me a lot, telling me that I’m psycho, paranoid, etc, totally trying to flip the script on me. I rent and luckily am on a month to month lease. More than likely, we will all leave that house, she will go her way and I mine. What’s hard is our son. I know I’ll be able to afford an apartment for him and I, but not confident that she can find a place and afford it on her own. Since we will probably be splitting time with our S, I don’t know what to do. I do know that I DO NOT want my son staying with my W and the OW should they be shacking up together. Thoughts?