Just got home and brother called and can watch the kids. W is still on the phone and in sweatpants. She mentioned the other night that she wanted to go to happy hour together sometime and I’m going to ask her to go tonight. She always hated when I never arranged anything so this is one of my (eventual) 180’s and tonight will be the test run. I know it goes against the rules to pursue but I’m actually taking advantage of the fact that she asked me this morning if we could talk tonight. I’ve been pretty distant the past couple days and she’s picked up on it big time. I am more convinced than ever that she’s having an A of some sort so I’ve been detaching hardcore while I process. I’ve decided I can’t confront her about it so I have to give her the benefit of the doubt right now and approach her as such. Taking her out tonight will give us a neutral kid free place to talk, let me test my 180, and see how things play out.
