Thanks R2C. Yes I'll definitely say that at least.

Do I call her out on/question the fact that she's changed her original plan that she mentioned (sometimes being at the house and the rest of the time at her brother's) or not? I'm guessing not, as it won't achieve anything.

Should I also ask her if she's at the house at all during the week these days?

What about -

"I can't be there on Monday. I have other commitments. So you're saying you are not in the house at all during the week?"


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020