Shes moving her stuff back into the MBR

[Ready2Change]

This is one type of conversation you can have. Stick to ONLY ONE TOPIC for each convo:

Calmly tell her that based on her out-of-control behavior from the other night, that you are very concerned for the safety of yourself and your S and if she shows any signs of violence then you will immediately call the police and have her removed. If she continues to escalate then CALL THE POLICE. This is setting a boundary, and a boundary must have consequences or it's worthless.

After you state your boundary, confidently walk away and do something productive.

The other type of conversations are parenting.

I am not sure how much parenting books you have read, but we all can be better parents. Add this to your personal growth. S10 was crying last night. Have you had alone time with him to discuss is feelings? I am sure you child was confused,scared,sad, etc. He needs guidance from his parents to process his emotions. I tell my kids it is OK to cry. It is OK to be angry. It is not OK to be physically violent. It not OK to break other peoples things.





From what you described, W blamed you for his tears. This is bad parenting on her side. There are ways to address this.