Very cordial and the kids are doing great 16 months into it. Minor bumps early on but to be honest they are doing great.
100% better place now then the end of the marriage and I had a pretty good WW. Life is to short to try to keep someone who wants out. I just started dating again after taking a break for 3 months. Though I haven’t found the one I want to settle down with there is no shortage of good women available to date. I have zero problem with being alone either.
At this point my advice to you is to open the cage door and set her free if that is her wish.