Don't be cold. Read sandi's rules and pay attention to the advice on the friendly cashier. ALso continue to study detachment (cadet's welcome thread has a great length). YOu can also google "self-differentiation in marriage" to get further insight into proper detachment.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
