ok she's calm for now. It was interesting to see the dynamic. She was furious. I was cool as a cucumber
Yep. Staying calm. Resolved. But firm is the right approach. And afterward notice you have none of the guilt you had from the other night when you went scorched-earth.
Calm and steady. Make that your new state of being. I was a hair-trigger, fly off the handle over spilled milk kind of guy before my sitch. My life is so much better now than it was before!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
