Yes, I agree with you, I have lost 45 lbs, working out 3 times a week, gotten Lasik surgery, new (better) job, GAL-ing more (much more than anytime in last 10 years), and trying some 180s. Feeling and looking good. In your opinion, as someone who successfully made it through this maze, how should I act towards her? I tend to go between going dark and being friendly and responding to her small talk. I've been cold towards her the last few days and she has continued to update me on the goings-on with S11 and her need to get some dental work done today etc. I guess I'm stuck on trying to figure out where she is coming from, which I know is a mistake because she is in fantasy land and not of sound mind or judgment. I really just want limbo to end, one way or another.
