You need to talk to a good lawyer; it'll be money well spent.
THIS ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Divorce is a legal proceeding. You need legal expertise to navigate those water. I say the same thing to LBSs that claim that they can't afford a lawyer that I say to LBSs that claim they can't afford IC:
You can't afford to NOT have a lawyer.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018