So I found out that my W is in a full blown with another woman. I'm taking the steps to fully detach and have questions about money.
Not too long ago, we've separated our accounts, and pay our shared bills through a joint account. I'm happy that I made that decision so she has no access to my funds. Since I make more money than her, we've agreed on a set amount of money that we each will contribute to joint account, my share being more than hers.
She has some medical bills that I offered to pay for, because I am her husband and wanted to make sure her bills are taken care of.
HOWEVER
In light of my knowledge of her A, I no longer want to support her, as she has chosen the affair over our family. Honestly, I feel used and taken advantage of. I have no legal responsibility for her bills.
Should I not continue paying for her bills? I was planning on telling her that since she chose the affair over family, I don't want to enable her anymore. Thoughts?
