Guys i don't know if you missed it in my original post, but i mentioned when i texted a girl in one of my college classes and my wife seen it. It was a dumb thing to do, but I truly didnt do anything with this girl but flirt with her a little. It hurt my W, I feel horrible about it, but that was 5 years ago.
She keeps bringing that up...I think it's a way for her justify what she's doing. the affair. Tonight she said," You made your bed 5 years ago!!" It's liek she's taking the worst thing that i've done in the relationship, and blowing it up to make herself feel better. Any thought on that?
Remember when you took the power back? It was just a couple hours ago. She didn’t expect that and now she grasping at straws. Don’t take the bait. You can already see how ridiculous it is because you’re able to maintain a level head right now. That means the 180’s you’ve been pulling have been for YOU. That’s verification for you right now. At the same time, she’s looking for verification but not finding it where she expected to; you. So now she’s digging deep to find something wrong with you but she’s running out of options. Let her run out.
