Shes moving her stuff back into the MBR

[Ready2Change]

Perfect. I will do a shot! Well done.

[kbuenob]

Guys i don't know if you missed it in my original post, but i mentioned when i texted a girl in one of my college classes and my wife seen it. It was a dumb thing to do, but I truly didnt do anything with this girl but flirt with her a little. It hurt my W, I feel horrible about it, but that was 5 years ago.

She keeps bringing that up...I think it's a way for her justify what she's doing. the affair. Tonight she said," You made your bed 5 years ago!!" It's liek she's taking the worst thing that i've done in the relationship, and blowing it up to make herself feel better. Any thought on that?

[kbuenob]

Salud!

[Ready2Change]

You have three choice on where to sleep tonight.


Your side of the bed. (You believe you made your point today. You will pick a different place tomorrow)
Her side of the bed. ("I decided I like it here better")
The middle. Starfish. ("You are free to sleep wherever you like. I like it here")

[Traveler]

Tonight she said," You made your bed 5 years ago!!" It's liek she's taking the worst thing that i've done in the relationship, and blowing it up to make herself feel better. Any thought on that?

"Wow, what I did back then, hurts you even today."

You are doing wonderful tonight just not taking the bait and staying calm.

[Ready2Change]

Guys i don't know if you missed it in my original post, but i mentioned when i texted a girl in one of my college classes and my wife seen it. It was a dumb thing to do, but I truly didnt do anything with this girl but flirt with her a little. It hurt my W, I feel horrible about it, but that was 5 years ago.

She keeps bringing that up...I think it's a way for her justify what she's doing. the affair. Tonight she said," You made your bed 5 years ago!!" It's liek she's taking the worst thing that I've done in the relationship, and blowing it up to make herself feel better. Any thought on that?

"I am sorry If that hurt you."
"I can't change the past"

[Ready2Change]

W"You made your bed 5 years ago!!"
H:"Sound like you are still angry about that"

[kbuenob]

Thank you guys. Tonight I'm learning that I have the fortitude to stay calm. It's quite empowering. I was always so reactive. Not any more. there will be many more trials to come but I will come out on top.

[Ready2Change]

Thank you guys. Tonight I'm learning that I have the fortitude to stay calm. It's quite empowering. I was always so reactive. Not any more. there will be many more trials to come but I will come out on top.

You can let out any emotions later(like next week), when you are in private and alone. Crying in the shower. Screaming in the car in an empty parking lot.

Be the rock while you are in the presence of your W.

[kbuenob]

100% R2C.