Guys i don't know if you missed it in my original post, but i mentioned when i texted a girl in one of my college classes and my wife seen it. It was a dumb thing to do, but I truly didnt do anything with this girl but flirt with her a little. It hurt my W, I feel horrible about it, but that was 5 years ago.
She keeps bringing that up...I think it's a way for her justify what she's doing. the affair. Tonight she said," You made your bed 5 years ago!!" It's liek she's taking the worst thing that i've done in the relationship, and blowing it up to make herself feel better. Any thought on that?