The legal separation is progressing. I should have pre-approval for my mortgage refi soon which will give me the confidence to file the consent order.
Ran into somewhat of a sticky situation with S1.5's daycare. They informed me that on H's morning he often drops him off very late, which causes disruption to the class when they are engaged in activities/lunch/nap. Also, a late arrival without notification counts as an absence, which negatively affects my subsidised fees. H doesn't contribute to said fees so it doesn't affect him.
I passed this onto H in the spirit of sharing information between co-parents, but I wonder if he would have seen this as an attempt at control on my part? Me being controlling (whether accurate or not) was his BIGGEST bugbear and he is easily triggered over it. He only sees our son twice a week and he may feel resentful that his time is being dictated by others. Am I reading too much into this situation and caring too much about how he may/may not feel?
He didn't respond to the message, but that isn't new and doesn't mean anything.
