On #8, a good child psychologist can help with that. Separation anxiety is not a good thing. Kids need to be ok with being away from mommy and daddy, let alone having to be with BOTH of them all the time. Consider getting him some guidance to deal with all of this. Obviously she is not going to be much help right now, and oz, I think you've admitted to your own issues which means getting him some help is paramount.
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