Steve85, I agree with you 100 percent. I am really focusing on GAL, 180s and minimal contact with W. When we are at the house, we only discuss the kids. She will try with the small talk, "Hi," "Have a good day" "I'll talk to you later" etc. I do not respond to anything other than talking about kids or bills. This really bothers her, as it represents a 180 for me, who usually defaults to NSG actions.