What if I’m no longer interested in busting this divorce. What if I want it? What if the only reasons I don’t want it is for the sake of our S.
Then you are detached.
Go to the list of books and find "Deep personal growth". He was very insightful about this part of the process.
Right now, you are the only one that can save this. You do it because it is the right thing to do. You lead your family though this extremely difficult situation.
You have issues that need to be addressed. This is the time of your life to commit to fixing them. Your relationship with your W is the "magic mirror". You look deep into this mirror and become a strong attractive alpha male. You are guided by your morals. How did Clint Eastwood make most of his decisions in the movies?
You give your W time and space to be unhappy without you. You shine no matter how she is feeling. She has her own issues to be addressed.
Steve85 gave you the most amazing words to say to your W.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
