She was upset because I walked into her school and down to her room. It's not like it was a problem because I taught there also and know everyone that works at the school. She later said she felt shame because of me being in the school. Somehow she wants this to disappear or go away but it will not unless we move. For some reason she doesn't want to be seen with me in public or feels shame if we are together. I don't really understand this one.
She thinks that because I go to church this keeps people talking about it. I told her the one way to shut them up is to come to church with me and the boys. That would shut them up.
Last night someone else posted her name on social media and she was very upset. She began to blame me because I told the OM's wife and shared messages with her. She continually blames me and the OM's wife for the truth being out in the open. I guess she will never take ownership for her mistake.
She says she is sorry for the pain she has caused me. She also claims she is scared because of the uncertainty. She is totally lost.
Validate feelings. We feel shame. We are sorry for the pain we have caused too. Those are true feelings. And yes, we are completely lost. I saw my W´s light when sailing inside that storm.
