There is no pain of limbo. I’m not in limbo. I know exactly where I stand with her. But she has become impossible to live with. And I mean to co-habitate with. Our son is very limited. He dislikes school very much because they push him. I’m the one who gets him ready in the morning. So naturally he is upset with me. His speech is limited
Son : I want daddy to go away!! He cries W ohhh baby come here. As she cuddles him.
I also have little doubt she would serve me papers pretty quickly. And she would hold all the cards
I’m totally calm and happy around her. Her mood doesn’t affect me a bit. However if she wants past me she will kinda push me out of the way.
I can see things going south in a hurry
For instance. Since I’m on vacation. I’m off in the afternoon. She got pissed yesterday when I told her I was going out to buy clothes.
“Well since you don’t have work you can pick up S from school” she sneered “I’ll be home whenever I get home” “Ok no problem” I replied
So I pick S up at 5. Head home and am hanging out with neighbors. She comes home at 7, 3 hrs after she gets off work
She blows in the door. Acting all pissed I’ve already eaten dinner. Then about face she’s nice as pie. Asking me if I want anything cause she is going out to get some food.
I feed son. Bathe him and put him to bed at 9. Go downstairs and tell W “I’m gonna go check out local bar” and I leave
I return at midnight. She is in bathroom with door closed. I don’t say anything head upstairs and go to bed
She then accuses me of cheating while we are both lying in bed.
W “you walked upstairs and went to bed without saying anything. F$&k you! You were at the bar for three hours and was alone the whole time. Bull! Who did you go with?!?!?!? Me uhh nobody W bullish!t!! Me. You’ve been walking around the house for a week not saying a word to me. And I come home and your in the bathroom with the door closed and your mad because I didn’t talk to you? W (silence)
Her crazy is spiraling out of control. She filed for D once behind my back 4 years ago. I won’t be surprised if she dies it again.
This has nothing to do with limbo LH. This has to do with figuring out my options. She is blinded by pain and depression and misery. She has been that way since she got pregnant. Looking back it’s very clear. We had some good moments. But she has been unhappy the whole time.
I’m calm and steady and happy. FYI to everyone reading this
