So I take D13 to church for her youth group, W text me this little gem;
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"As you attend church so often now and are finding this new found and deeper spiritual life, I pray that your word always match your actions. I will continue to be the best mom I can be for our kids and I will continue to treat you with respect."
Context - W knows we have both been very spiritual, we met at Church and were youth leaders, I even wanted to be a priest, so this is a bit ironic.
I answered all wrong, I went into a long response about forgiveness and the moral/spiritual dimension of what is happening to us. I should have just shut up, but I felt that by bringing up my faith she opened the door to that discussion.
Anyways, I don't know what she meant by "word match actions". She did say later that she will continue with the D even though I'm delaying. As she was leaving (more on that later) I asked what she meant, because I'm not delaying anything. Looks like she's frustrated with my lawyer not being fast on responding, and filing stuff. I told her I have nothing to do with that, and that I haven't told my lawyer to delay anything.
I told her how this process is so horrible, lawyers, separating kids on holidays, etc. ... she just said "yeah, it's called a DIVORCE".
She says she's happy I'm doing better, improving spiritually, but that she doesn't need to be a part of it and that we don't need to be married. In the end she left screaming at me. Very frustrating night.
So she's off to her NYC trip. Initially she told me she'd be back Sunday, now I find out she's back Monday and didn't even give me a time "sometime in the afternoon, my friend hasn't given me details". She has family in NYC and I asked her if she was going to visit them, she said she doesn't know because she's not even sure what part of NYC she'll be staying at. The whole trip is so weird, but I don't to think about it or obsess about whatever she's doing over there.
Few minutes later she calls me because D13 was missing her new water bottle. She talked to me normally, like nothing had happened before. The way she left I was surprised she called and even sounded normal. Then texted me a bunch of info about things the girls have to do.
