Im gonna ask her tonight if she would like to move out and leave me and E behind. You know. Since she regrets us so bad and all Advice?
Hi Ozman,
I love it, if you can stay positive, have childcare figured out, and are okay either way. Note how Steve's comment is positive, validating, and does not push her to go, stay, or make a choice on your timeline.
I'd probably avoid your question form, seeking a response. I'd also avoid "Since you regret us so bad and all" as it sounds bitter. I'd avoid this entirely if you'd be upset if she maintains the limbo. Woah--that's a lot of reservations! Any reason to do this tonight when you're still sore over the maid business?