Let me close this part by saying that There are some women who leave the M due to giving up, out of discouragement, loss of connection, etc. Perhaps the H neglected her to the point she no longer wants to stay with him. Perhaps he has nothing at all, but she has other issues. And of course, there are WAW's who come from abusive R's, and other issues I could name, but the point I'm making is that these woman may not have a wayward heart. Just b/c they left the MR, does not mean their heart has gone bad. That was my point in dividing the wayward wife from the walk-away wife.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712