Hey WMLC. From reading your sitch, i think, as you seem to be realizing yourself, that your W is a WW and not in a MLC. Sandi2 can probably weigh in a little more, but alot of us here have gone through the same thing... WW syndrome seems to be a lot more prevalent than MLCs on here.

You can get a lot of good insight just by reading "Sandi's Rules", which i believe are stickied in the newcomer's forums, as well as reading through her other threads. She has also helped a number of particular posters on here who have suffered through having a WW (myself included), and, as Steve indicated, all hope is not lost even where you have "screwed up" (as he and i both have on more than one occasion, lol).

One more thought, since you are in fact a newcomer and will have questions and concerns likely spanning a wide range of issues/topics, probably not a bad idea to run your threads over here on the newcomer's forum... is a significantly more widely frequented forum and you are more likely, imo, to get feedback when posting over here.


H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18

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